1 am, my drunk younger sister calls around, and asks me to get rid of my elder sister because she is drunk, on cocaine, and won't leave her house. When I get there, my elder sister threatens to call the police on me, and claim DV, to which I say fine, go ahead, I want you to (I wasn't worried, I had witnesses). My drunken younger sister, who wants my elder sister to leave her house, calls the police. They arrive, I tell them what is wrong. My elder sister, being the disgusting drunken, crack whore she is won't leave. The police ask me to take my drunken slag elder sister home. To avoid being falsely accused, I ask the police to follow me in the car as witnesses, and they do. (She already threatened to make a false claim of DV on me earlier as I already said)

I shouldn't have to put up with this. My mother suffers from stress, and these drunken single mother whores do this, and get her in a panic. Not only that, I had to deal with police officers who I hate.



You see that picture? That's like what I have to deal with on a regular basis, drunken whores like that. Be greatful if only you don't ever have to encounter them.

The sadest thing is, both of them are mothers.

Social worker scum bags won't do anything about it though, as they prefer to kidnap kids from stable families, but that's a whole other topic.

Anyway, it's 2:30am, and I have to sleep. I just had to get this off my chest.

Sorry you have to go through all of that. Keep your chin up.

Yip. Thats what the world is like, but, dont forget, its not the womens fault, the patriarchy made them like that..

sorry for your problems

Sleep well, old man...

Sorry you have to deal with that kind of irrational behavior all the time. In a decent society they would have been married to some husband who would be taking care of their lives. Unfortunately they have no direction, no future, and are just floundering in abusive destructive behavior.

Its sorry you have to deal with this. I'm sure it gives you a lot of understanding about typical useless females today.

Blessings

Bob

You're absolutely right, you shouldn't have to deal with this. Maybe you might consider letting the two of them handle their own problems, and when they call you for help or try to drag you into their situations, maybe you might consider declining that invitation. Their lives, their actions, their behavior is their responsibility. Every time you rush in to save the day you are enabling them to continue to act the way they do. They don't have to face their own problems or face the full natural consequences of their actions. Sounds like they both have addiction problems that are contributing greatly to their life problems, and the thing is, neither one is probably fully aware of this, and they won't be motivated to quit drinking until they break through this denial. Helping either one of them out in a time of crisis helps them hold onto that denial.

Sounds like your heart has been in the right place, but it also sounds like this is a situation that calls for some tough love.

Good luck to you!

I forgot to but meant to say, my field of study happens to be counseling the chemically dependent and their families. I'm also in recovery. If there's anything you might want to talk about, or get information about, please feel free to message me. Anything you discuss would be kept completely confidential. I have a lot of experience in this area, and I'd be happy to help (or just listen).

So sorry you and your family have to deal with this.

Yes, that is by far the saddest aspect. My advice would be to concentrate your concerns, time and effort on the real victims....their children. Hopefully strong support of extended family can help to minimize the adverse affect on their children.

Great advice Kim. Better for the children. He can be a hero to them and let them know that the important thing isn't what their mothers are taking from them but what he can give them.

See, I had to do something, because they both take advantage of my mother's stress. Both of my parents are good people, and I have to help take care of them, as they are disabled. Unfortunately, this means I have to deal with my sisters who I don't like as my parents won't exactly kick them out of their lives.

I posted this, not really for sympathy, but because I wanted people to know what it's like being a man in today's society, and how single mother whoredom affects kids and families. Of course I know most women are not like this, and that most men will not have to encounter it, but it had to be said.

At the moment, I am looking after my 7 year old niece. Last night I was caring for my 5 year old niece who I adore. I am far more upset for my nieces than anything else, as they have to LIVE with these people!!!

This is good advice, Tera. If it wasn't for my mother's stress, and my nieces, I would just totally ignore them, as I don't really care about them at all. Problem is, they are kinda vile even when they are sober, they have always been disgusting me for as long as I can remember.