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    Do primary schools let boys down?


    Do primary schools let boys down?

    By the age of seven more than a quarter of boys need special help with their education, the latest figures show.

    Boys tend to like to learn by doing
    Is there something inherently wrong with a large chunk of one of the sexes - or are primary schools simply letting boys down?




    It has long been known that male and female brains are different - that they mature at different rates and develop in different ways.

    You only need to look at the way very young boys and girls play to see that often they like different things and approach things in different ways.

    Experts say girls' brains are more wired up for communicating and reading emotions, while boys like moving, doing and solving practical problems.

    Principal of the School of Emotional Literacy Dr Elizabeth Morris says: "Boys like doing things for a purpose and having things that are concrete and relevant to deal with.

    "Girls will be happier with discussion, relationship building, team activities and reading."

    She adds: "The teaching profession in primaries is dominated by women who, with the best will in the world, will tend to deliver a larger proportion of the curriculum in teaching styles that make most sense to them - and therefore favour the girls."

    Girls tend to be auditory and visual learners whereas boys are more kinaesthetic learners.

    This means that while girls like to listen and watch, boys like to learn by doing and taking part in discussions in small groups.

    So teachers need to be aware of the ways in which their pupils find it most natural to learn, says head teacher at the Churchill School in Folkestone, Jennie Carter.

    "If someone's picking at the carpet when the TV's on - they are not likely to be a visual learner."

    Don't fidget

    To ensure that all pupils are being given an equal chance to learn, teachers at the school ask pupils to rate how clearly they understand what has just been taught to them.

    If the pupils who say they have not quite grasped things are the ones she knows to be visual learners - then she might show them a picture to help them grasp what's being taught, for example.

    As a result of this and other measures, of the 43% of children who get extra help at the school, 93% reach the required level in national tests.

    Good school behaviour in the early years is often about sitting still, not
    fidgeting and waiting your turn to answer the teacher's question.


    "Given that boys in particular need to rough and tumble play as part of their development - and that this is happening less with parents now because they are not around so much - we may be seeing boys trying unconsciously to do what is right for their bodies by being physical," says Dr Morris.

    "But they have it misunderstood and classified as an emotional behaviour disorder because it doesn't conform to school needs."

    Stereotyping?

    Some experts suggest that teachers are deliberately getting pupils labelled as having special needs with reading, for example, because it is an easy way of getting a difficult child out of the classroom for a while.

    Mrs Carter says if there is a lack of support for members of staff this misuse of SEN labels is likely to happen.

    She recalls one bright pupil with Asperger's syndrome (ASD).

    "Some days he would not want to be with people so we would let him lie on the floor under the white board and let him get on with his work.

    "He did really well and got into a grammar school but they couldn't cope when he got there."


    Thankfully, the grammar school sent a teacher back to the primary school to draw up a provision map to deal with the different situations he was likely to encounter.

    The fact that more and more children are being diagnosed with autistic spectrum disorders like Asperger's, which tend to affect more boys than girls, also slants the special needs statistics.

    Dr Sujin Rhee, child clinical psychologist in the San Francisco Bay area, says the way such disorders manifest themselves varies widely but many children with Asperger's can end up having scuffles in the playground.

    "Those with Asperger's (ASD) have trouble with distractibility, they are rigid in their thinking and have difficulties with social skills and building friendship, misread social cues and have verbal outbursts.

    "It is likely to be difficult for them to identify and process their feelings and emotions and manage their stress or anxiety."

    Many of these symptoms can be overcome with specialist help but obviously that can only be given once it is spotted.

    She says there is a strong need for the regular teachers and administrators to raise awareness and understand the needs of ASD pupils.

    But crucially she adds: "I don't believe we should force children to interact with their peers if they don't really want to.

    "Some children want to play alone and it causes them angst to have to socialise as much as we may want them to or we see fit."

    Maybe schools' obsession with conformity is the root of the problem - perhaps our teachers are unconsciously trying to make boys behave more like girls?

    Dr Morris: "Boys are great - they are full of fun and life. I hate how we take that energy and try to contain it rather than finding channels and opportunities to work with them in ways that fit for them."

    She says that boys often end up being stereotyped which just creates a self-fulfilling cycle, but she adds that once those working with children are able to see what is going on developmentally or neurologically they see the children quite differently.

    "If we can then give them easy-to-use resources and encouragement to teach outside their comfort zone for a bit - it would help enormously."


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    Re: Do primary schools let boys down?

    "Is there something inherently wrong with a large chunk of one of the sexes ..." starts the article.

    I'd say there is. It is the chunk of the female sex that gravitates toward teaching where they have complete power and authority over children that they can discriminate against and abuse at will. The bossy schoolyard bully-girl who just grew taller.

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    Don't get me started on this. I could go on for hours. From Asia to Europe the system is very effeminate. My boy is already fluent in two languages at 6 yds., past a Eiken test Junior Highschool in his second language and is off the charts in math and science. Why? An understanding of boy's energy is why. If you can get boys to use their energy in the right direction they will leave girls behind by their energy level alone.

    You must have men involved in the sytem and they must be allowed to turn the system on its head. But the father must be there and heavily involved, and then the boy is away to the races.

    Yet we are doing almost everything wrong in the present system.

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    Do primary schools let boys down?

    Yes they do.

    I retired from my job as a UK schools inspector in 2000 but from what I hear it would appear that things have got worse rather than better. The article is written from the layman's point of view. It's an easily digestible hotch-potch of simple facts and personal observations. That's what passes for journalism these days. Nevertheless, I couldn't help but nod in agreement (with the comments too - but then, they were more carefully written ).

    Schools vary greatly but it's hard to pin the blame on them or even individual teachers. The great majority (including the women) are well-meaning but they were trained after the Great Disruption. At Primary classroom level, I don't believe the gender of the teacher is that important. It's what the teacher does that counts. Some of the old schoolmarms of the 50's knew how to bring out the best in boys. Their teaching was rigorous and they encouraged fierce competition.

    The seed change began in the teacher-training institutions during the 70's. The feminising process was slow and gradual and it was a led from the top. The UK system is very hierarchical and if you don't toe the party line you don't get on.

    At first, schools were reluctant to abandon tried and tested practice but they were told that great changes were afoot and they had to 'move with the times'. Speaking of times, I still have a cutting from 'The Times' (early 80's) where the educational correspondent, discussing social education, concludes, "Why blame the schools when they are the last bastions of a morality that has largely disappeared from the rest of society?"

    With the wisdom of hindsight, it's easy to see how getting Dad out of the family and Uncle out of the classroom was a carefully orchestrated two-pronged attack.

    While I agree with Timocrat that more men in the system would help, I pity those poor men.


 

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