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**Marx** · 23rd-February-2007

Quote from Brad

She said of him "he does not seem to have male back bone you know he is playing a female role... he does not know...you know manly,,,treat 'em mean keep 'em keen"
"What has he done for you?" I gathered he had been showering her with gifts"he thinks you can buy love......"

Yep, seen this myself.

One of my wife's work friends (friend outside of work too) had a boyfriend who was a good bit older than she. He was divorcing and certainly had enough in his pocket to sustain himself and another without any problems. He bought her a rock for her finger that would cause anyone to walk with a hunchback, it was huge!
Anyway, the short is she was telling my wife about how he never argues with her, he's never even called her a bitch, he's never done anything wrong, he's been the ultimate perfect 'gentleman' to her. She was annoyed that because he'd done nothing wrong, she had 'no reason to be mad at him'. Anyway, she shared with my wife that she had taken a fancy for another fella at work (an engineer, a married engineer at that).
After spending God knows how much money on her in a futile effort for her affections, he had enough. He moved out. She told him he was open to go back in anytime and collect the rest of his possessions.
So he did. While collecting his own stuff he happened upon a letter to a friend or relative that explained she not only fancied this married engineer, she'd taken it to a physical level with him. The engineer told her he wouldn't do it anymore because he felt bad going home to his wife and putting on the act of innocence etc.
Anyway, the rich boyfriend read this letter and - rightfully so -got very upset with her and gave her a peice of his mind. He gave her what she wanted - an excuse to be mad at him.
A week later, he walked into her work with a bunch of flowers and 'begged' forgiveness. Her response went to the effect of:
"You've already done the damage - it's over."

OMG - I couldn't believe it! What a dumb kcufing woman. He - did what damage, exactly? What the hell does the stupid woman expect him to do, just sit by while she's molesting one of her co-workers? And she dares to blame him for having a REaction to her actions?
Granted, she's a good looking girl, but oh does her attitude stink, and it would seem she is far from intelligent if she cannot see that a man will get upset when he has tried to be the best he possibly can (in the eyes of a woman, at least) only to be shit on for NO reason.

People like her make me sick. She isn't stupid, but by god, she's so stupid.

Sadly, and for all the power on Earth, I cannot fathom why, but my wife chose to ask this woman for relationship advice. LoL. Additionally, she made many suggestive comments and 'moves' (on a dance floor) that I (and I suspect most men) would consider as making advances on her (my wife), such as "I want to lick you".

Yeah, I've seen what you talk of Brad. And personally, I'm not willing to play that character.

**Dr David Banner** · 23rd-February-2007

Karl that is a gut wrenching appalling story.Women seem to me to be far more assertive in demanding respect from men than vice versa. As we know dogs get more respect than men. Call them on bad behaviour and they wangle it round so its your fault.
Having made an utter eejit of myself over women in the past...I resolved never ever again.Flowers chocs diamonds and all the other duties.Nope
any future pressies I give will be a copy of Thomas Ellis the Rantings
or Why Men Earn More,can you imagine the effect of that....

Women take advice from other women and its usually the wrong advice.Women believe what they read in chuffing Bella.

I just read about Wimbeldon the women are getting same prize money as men -for less time on court.
the farce continues....

**knight-errant** · 23rd-February-2007

Funnily enough I know a man who's like this. He's a very overly emotional, ego driven individual.

Impossible to reason with. Probably a mangina too.

**Rebadow** · 23rd-February-2007

Quote from Karl

OMG - I couldn't believe it! What a dumb kcufing woman.

Surely you must mean "What a dumb kcufing man", Karl?

Because when I read the "A week later, he walked into her work with a bunch of flowers and 'begged' forgiveness" part, I lost every bit of sympathy for this guy, to put it mildly.

He got what he wanted. He wanted to be treated like scum and that's what he got - and he even got back and begged!!! for more.

That woman's stupidity is NOTHING compared to the man's. She will always be a spoilt little princess, fine, but he had a chance and very good reason to leave this biatch and kick her in that spoilt little arse of hers (figuratively speaking, of course). Instead he chose to kiss it.

**Marx** · 24th-February-2007

In my humble opinion, his only error is that he loves her. And we cannot control those urges. We may be able to learn to cope in a different way; ignoring, distracting ourselves, jumping into them, etc. but ultimately we cannot simply dispose of our feelings.
I do feel sympathy for this guy. I have only met him a couple of times, but you can see he is a sincere & decent fella. He doesn't seem the sort to make stupid decisions under normal circumstances.
What I think happened was simple:
He discovered the truth (of her affair/betrayal) - he exploded in reaction to her unappealing acts against him - She, being a typical princess syndrome sufferer, cannot fathom that a person she betrays might just get upset - He calms down - decides he still loves - asks for another shot.

But it winds me up to see that hussy claiming that he had done the damage. What a moron.

**Timocrat** · 24th-February-2007

Love is the effeminate compass that society gives the population to follow its solipsism. Brad take heart, anger is yin/yang (a good and bad thing). Many walk calmly around acting cool, oblivious to what is coming.

Any work I do burns off my anger ( in an effective useful way). Like going to the gym helps with stress. I think to avoid the negative effects one should avoid those ruled by desires. They talk or email just like attention whores, and you are wasting time trying to convert them to logic or cooperation. It's like going to the gym and hitting on a women there or chit-chatting with someone there to meet people. Or changing your clothes a couple of times so others don't see you sweat ( many women do this). You go to gym to get rid of stress, you work as a MRA to find those that you can work with, and you spread truth. All refresh and get rid of stress.

Yet if you are looking for other things, it becomes less predictable and you are likely to burn out ( in the end that will be no anger and no effort, to work with anyone who doesn't cater to your ego-like some burnt out old whore).

Don't burn out by wasting very valuable anger. Put it to use and don't talk with hags- or talk like hags.

**Rebadow** · 24th-February-2007

Quote from Karl

What I think happened was simple:
He discovered the truth (of her affair/betrayal) - he exploded in reaction to her unappealing acts against him - She, being a typical princess syndrome sufferer, cannot fathom that a person she betrays might just get upset - He calms down - decides he still loves - asks for another shot.

Karl, I get what happened, people do strange things when they're in love. I can completely understand his reaction etc. I agree with you - until the very last part. What did he think? That if she "forgave him" (I still don't see why he thought HE had to apologize), she wouldn't do something like that again? I could never trust a person again after pulling something like that on me? Could you? Therefore WHY BOTHER? It wouldn't be the first time to suffer unreturned love.

I don't know. Maybe it's just me. But even when I'm in love, I keep at least some minimal level of self-respect. There's only so many things I would do before saying "Enough". So I guess I just can't relate to this guy...