Quote from John Dias

Which leads me to the question... What do women equate with power? Is it status? Attention? Being needed? It would seem that for men to truly have power, they would have to reject these very things -- which are about "seeming." Real male power is about "being," but a lot of men still don't realize that. They still embrace the thinking of Gordon Gecko: That painting -- or a flashy car, or anything -- is an example of the external validation that weak men seek. It appears powerful -- and yet if they were to lose it all, it would be as if their penis had been cut off.

Powerful men, on the other hand, display a charisma and strength that transcends social status and external validation. They pursue their passion not because it makes them look good, but because it makes them feel happy. One of my favorite songs is "Limelight" by Rush, which perfectly describes, in my view, the ideal man:

I cant quite work out why i gave up all the opportunities I had and my wealth etc that I gained when in my 20's, why I was so tired of women just wanting money, (they never got any off me though!) and tired of the constant comparing salaries, cars etc..

Guess it was something to do with driving a Big Jag around and still wanting to pick up crack whores rather than the fancy tarts in the bars..

I never judged a woman on much other than how stiff she made my chopper and how likely she was to not press charges..

When a man goes from poor to rich fast, he sort of feels like he is losing something good and gaining nothing he really wants, but only women and inadequate blokes want..

I used to say..

"if I cant fuck it or eat it, what fucking use it is it to me?"

Most of the things riches buy are just glorified versions of what can be adequately achieved on the idle life..

And, when I was a young gent driving a falsh car, the street walkers still thought I looked like a nutter, (I had a silly mohican hairstyle) and other blokes kept wanting to jump in because they thought I had stolen it!!

I think money and riches are for wimps who cant live without insulation..

Quote from julie

Do you want to know why nice guys don't get the girls? It is because you fear us. You don't even try and then you complain.

No, you are seeing that from the womans perspective..

From the "nice guys" perspective, he is more scared of the gorilla who wants to wear you on his arm, or just can get past the smooth talkers who are hogging you..

Nice guys dont think they have the god given "right" to try and chat to you and you know, if they did, you would either categorise them the same as the others, or just walk away from them as soon as Mr Smoothy comes along with his red rose and twitching trousers..

If you really wanted "mr nice guy" you would make the effort to find him and shoo off the shitflies..

Thats what women do with me, THEY attract MY attention, either by running away rapidly and wobbling in the right places, or by simply tapping on my car window and asking..

"Do you want business?"...

Often, nice guys dont go in for all that smarmy pick up crap, being the shy sort of gent, there is little one can do to get a ladies attention..

So, I guess a shy gent wont have much to say..

Women need to be aware that when a guy says..

"Would you like a lift home tonight?"

She should respond correctly..

"I am not sure, what if you are some sort of a nutter or something?"..

Then, she will be relieved by the answer..

"Dont worry, I will give you a good fucking as well..."

But, women prefer the liars and smoothies..

Quote from julie

He has been away for a month in Paris (France) for the Rugby World Cup and we had a good talk over what I have achieved.

So, what have you achieved then? Please elucidate!

I explained the anger from men to accept women's help and he is going to help me. I guess if you guys were going to do something about the problem you would have already done it by now. But you don't and you didn't.

Is there really anger from men in accepting womens help? I am not really aware that that is really the case in most quarters..
And, what is the problem and what can be done? The problem is not really defined, even if the answer is!!

So sad, too bad for you. Women are going to do something about this whether you like it or not. I don't have the patience you guys do.

I have little patience either, good on you Shiela, so, what are you going to do about what?

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OK, I have now been told that I am wrong. Women do go for the wallet.

Bola, I am sorry if I disagree on things. You can discuss these matters between men all you like but that is not going to change a God Damn thing.
You might even have feminists looking in and they may change their views but still you are not going to change a God damn thing.

What would happen if I spoke for or against you on this site? Nothing.

I think Drex's idea of a research on what the MRA wants is appropriate. What do the majority of men want. That is the answer. And just like us females, you have to suffer the consequences if you don't agree.

hey, I dont really know what women want, but i have tried to answer it in a thread above, to be honest, the big tool and the big wallet really dont figure that much, because women mostly dont care that much about anything other than immediate gratification and usually the resourc emost demanded by the post-modern gash seems to be "attention"..

They have their own money now, and they have rampant rabbits.. or soda bottles..

Men are not much more than tag-along accessories in the main..



As for what do men in the MRA want?

It would be hard to really get to the bottom of that, so much disinformation has been put out that men dont truly understand what they are dealing with..

Far easier to "dumb-out" and just say "eqwaliteeeee"

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Now men can appreciate me for my mind. That's all I wanted. I didn't want for men to see me as a worthwhile to raise their children.

Hmm! seems odd, I have never found anything remotely interesting in a womans mind other than a lot of fluff in most cases, but even if one likes a "fluffing" now and then, surely the basis of what men and women are about is judging the adequacy of the opposite sex for the breeding chambers?

I mean if a woman does not have "maternal" potential, she is nothing but a spunkbucker really, fit for not much other than dumping a load in or keeping the house tidy, and then, you are going to need a breeder for the main job??

Mind you, Its hard to judge sometimes, some women seem vehemently anti-breeders, multi-aborting child haters, then, they go all ga-ga over a foot of solid cock rammed in their canyons 5 times daily and eventually when released from captivity 3 kids later they are the best mothers imaginable..

There is only one accurate judge of a womans suitabilty..

The pork periscope..

Drex. what are we doing here? You can pull apart what I say and what I think but it doesn't mean anything.

I can't be held responsible for women's mistakes on the whole but I can be held responsible for having knowledge that feminism hates men and not doing anything about it.

When are we going to get down to business? Yes, that's my question.

Men and women have very different attitudes about the size of penises.

He it seems, is ‘obsessed’ with the size of his penis, according to her. He is terrified of it. So much so that he never talks about it to her and barely ever lets the issue enter his mind for fear of total life disruption.

Unless he is in a public toilet where all he does is look, in astonishment and envy, at other men’s dicks.

They, apparently, don’t mind him looking.

But he won't talk to other men about it.

Every woman ‘knows’ this, ‘intuitively’, because he never discusses it with her.

Every other man in the world has a bigger dick.

That is, his is the smallest of 3 billion dicks, including those of little boys.

No wonder he refuses to think about it, let alone talk to her about it.

He makes sure his little penis is out of sight as much a possible. It is of such shamefully small proportion that he would be arrested if he showed it in public. The law actually forbids it.

The very sight of his tiny dick would cause grown women to scream, old women to faint, little girls to be traumatised and dogs to howl.

She, charitably, cannot understand his ‘obsession’. She cares nothing for size.

“Size does not matter”, she says. Why should she care?

Even despite the fact that HER man has the smallest, weenyist, most miniscule dick in the world, she doesn’t mind.

She loves him.

She could not imagine being so obsessed.

Besides. She has BREASTS.

And, she has bras, that have padding. And gels. And up-lifting under-wires.

Bras that lift, shape, separate, accentuate, minimize big ones and maximize tiddlers.

They push-up, plunge, 'contour', control, shape, flatten.

Increase cleavage, decorate, contrast, attract.

Give illusion of ‘cup of choice’, overflowing or otherwise.

She loves to flash 'cleavage'. She exposes bits of breast wherever and whenever she can.

And she has …..silicon gel inserts at $500 per breast, along with $7500 surgical interventions that generate $ 62.875 billion a year of Gross Domestic Product.

She can even get a special Surgical Loan from her health fund to change her breast size.

Then there’s the diet industry. $145b. p/a !

Why should she be concerned ? Men and their obsession with size !!

She, even with ‘petite’ breasts, will get her kit off at the sound of a camera being cocked, but he won’t – ‘cause his dick’s TOO small.

Men !! (tm). Just ‘little boys’.

She wonders if ‘lovers’ have big ones.

Quote from julie

Drex. what are we doing here? You can pull apart what I say and what I think but it doesn't mean anything.

I can't be held responsible for women's mistakes on the whole but I can be held responsible for having knowledge that feminism hates men and not doing anything about it.

When are we going to get down to business? Yes, that's my question.

Aye... I have been getting down to business for some years now.. feminism has actually not done me that much harm, I guess I have used their own tools to my own advantage..

Its the other poor buggers, and my kids, i feel sorry for!!

Whats the POA then ?

Quote from julie

John, Annette is right.

But if you or any man is faced with question about your penis then it is not the right time to be pursuing that woman.

When I was in my teens and my 20's and in fact my young 30's I was sick and tired of men.

Good God I worked in a hotel and men would put money in front of them wanting to fuck me. And then the pick up lines and the BS made me dislike men. I think personally that men not liking women over 35 is great. Now men can appreciate me for my mind. That's all I wanted. I didn't want for men to see me as a worthwhile to raise their children. I didn't want to be a show on his arm. Seriously . We push you away because we have had too much of men's pick up lines. We honestly get sick of it.

Do you want to know why nice guys don't get the girls? It is because you fear us. You don't even try and then you complain.

OMG!!!! A post by a female that I 1000% agree with!!! You took the thoughts right out of my mind!

NOW you know why I talk about my real age so much; I couldn't WAIT to be over 35 because then I felt I could be appreciated for WHO I was, and not WHAT I looked like. Its all I ever really wanted. I used to dress in Army jackets and jeans in high school and STILL guys flirted with me! I used to wonder if they had X-ray vision or something.

I was considered "hot" when I was in my teens and early 20s, and even exploited that to do some minor modeling (no, nothing X-rated). But SINCERELY I just wanted to be appreciated for ME and not what I looked like on the outside.

Quote from julie

OK, I have now been told that I am wrong. Women do go for the wallet.

Bola, I am sorry if I disagree on things. You can discuss these matters between men all you like but that is not going to change a God Damn thing.
You might even have feminists looking in and they may change their views but still you are not going to change a God damn thing.

What would happen if I spoke for or against you on this site? Nothing.

I think Drex's idea of a research on what the MRA wants is appropriate. What do the majority of men want. That is the answer. And just like us females, you have to suffer the consequences if you don't agree.

I'm not a typical female, so maybe I'm no one to judge this by, but...

My Dad used to always try to fix me up the sons of doctors and lawyers he worked with (he was a union boss)...and he was frustrated that I wasn't interested.

I actually preferred blue-collar, working-class guys, like the son of the deli owner in our neighborhood. My Dad was fed up, and once argued with me that I didn't know what was important in life. He wanted to make sure I would be "well taken-care of". But I didn't want that.

If you've ever seen the film, CROSSING DELANCEY, you see the kind of guy I wanted. A nice down-to-earth guy who was part-owner of a pickle store! I didn't want to marry some rich doctor or lawyer who would ensconce me in his Main Line mansion, with servants and tennis bracelets, who would then leave me if I gained 1/4th of a pound or got one grey hair! Screw that!

About male friends asking me about the Penis Question: the male friends I've had were often unusual...religious types, asexual types, virgins, etc

Not all of them fell into those categories, but I never had sex with any of them either, so maybe that has something to do with it. I think guys feel freer to ask that question of a female they know will not ever have sex with them, for whatever reason...sort of the way they might feel if they were asking that of a professional female shrink or something.

What frustrates me is: no matter how much I reassure them, they don't seem to truly accept it.

And now, I have a penis question for the men: what do you call a penis that is very small when flaccid, but becomes huge when erect? One friend told me that's called a "telescoper", but I wonder how common this phenomenon is among men?

Quote from Annette1313

OMG!!!! A post by a female that I 1000% agree with!!! You took the thoughts right out of my mind!

NOW you know why I talk about my real age so much; I couldn't WAIT to be over 35 because then I felt I could be appreciated for WHO I was, and not WHAT I looked like. Its all I ever really wanted. I used to dress in Army jackets and jeans in high school and STILL guys flirted with me! I used to wonder if they had X-ray vision or something.

I was considered "hot" when I was in my teens and early 20s, and even exploited that to do some minor modeling (no, nothing X-rated). But SINCERELY I just wanted to be appreciated for ME and not what I looked like on the outside.

This is why I don't listen to a lot of women... The self-delusions...

Quote from Annette1313

But SINCERELY I just wanted to be appreciated for ME and not what I looked like on the outside.

But why would the one thing exclude the other?

My last girlfriend was a petite Chinese lady, and I'm a 6 ft 200 lb guy. We were mismatched in every proportion, including penis/vagina. Size matters only in extreme cases (see the Kama Sutra).

Maybe guys are more self-conscious now because of the easy availability of porn. I knew a gay man a few years ago who wanted to get a penis enlargement, I suspect mainly for cosmetic reasons. He seemed perfectly healthy otherwise (no I never saw "it").