Arguing....A womens thing?

**shaazam** · 14th-December-2008

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I thought you had me on ignore Tera. Beside I didn't see a personal attack.

I see disagreement I see conflict resolution. Which you say is not a bad thing right?

Starting an argument isn't bad right? Arguing isn't bad right?

Or is it not bad if it is just the woman who starts the fight and carries it on?

I guess if the man is on the defensive through the whole fight then that is ok but if the man fights back like we do here then it is bad right?

So we can fight when you start an argument so long as we only defend ourselves. But when we fight back then we are misogynists.

Gotcha Tera double standard #603 noted.

not wise nowdays to fight wimmin the DV leos will be banging at your door - first gambit in the divorce merry go round

**Percy** · 15th-December-2008

Women push for an elimination of all kinds of fears in their lives.

If only this were so.

What is so noticeable is women seeking fears. It is often like moths to a flame. And worse - they invent fantasy fears. Only a gender so in thrall to 'fears' would grasp the idea that all men are rapists; 'Men !! (tm) are jerks; 'there are no good men around'; and a host of other fantasy phrases so far from reality that their lives are a constant cringe.

**MadShangi** · 15th-December-2008

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If only this were so.

What is so noticeable is women seeking fears. It is often like moths to a flame. And worse - they invent fantasy fears. Only a gender so in thrall to 'fears' would grasp the idea that all men are rapists; 'Men !! (tm) are jerks; 'there are no good men around'; and a host of other fantasy phrases so far from reality that their lives are a constant cringe.

I read in Cosmo magazine that women actually have rape fantasies. Now, mind you a rape fantasy is a lot different from actually getting raped, but it sure tells you a lot about their mindset. They're both offended and turned-on by rape. How interesting.

**Stan** · 15th-December-2008

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I read in Cosmo magazine that women actually have rape fantasies. Now, mind you a rape fantasy is a lot different from actually getting raped, but it sure tells you a lot about their mindset. They're both offended and turned-on by rape. How interesting.

Could this tie to all of the false rape allegations that women report to the Police?

Some reports say that around 1/2 of all reported rapes never occurred.

**christianj** · 15th-December-2008

Last time I read an article or comments from Police Officers themselves (on this site) it was more like 80%..

**Stan** · 15th-December-2008

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Last time I read an article or comments from Police Officers themselves (on this site) it was more like 80%..

Get this...I told this false allegation thing to a guy I don't know. He agreed and said that he had a false allegation called in on him in college. Two days after he broke up with a girl. 20 year later it still upsets him - he thought he'd be going to jail at the time. Luckily she recanted. I told him that the college false accusation thing is quite common.

He also told me about another case I hadn't heard of...he's with a girl and they are making love. And he blurted out the wrong name. All of a sudden the girl says RAPE at the top of her lungs and they stop. She screams "you raped me!". He said "sorry I forgot your name" and then left her place. Nothing more happened. He said that was one of those "50% False allegation cases" haha. He said he was not worried about that one as he was older but he knew that all she had to do was pick up the phone. Interesting.