Allow me to please clear things up as a WOMAN on this forum.

[onyxmoon000]

I've had a lot of angry emails and threats of being banned because I said my part in the whole male circumcision post... Let me passively clear things up that all the things I said were not meant to sound disrespectful, nor was I insulting peoples beliefs or telling any of the men that they were wrong or being irrational. I'm usually the type of woman that would rather try to understand why people believe and think the way they do without throwing down judgement or unjustified information.

Now what I had gathered from this information of me being banned for commenting on the post, is that I was disrespectful and "full of shit" when I was really asking questions and conversing with both sides... I was also called the typical female that thinks circumcision is right and should still exist, which I never said that at all, I never exactly stated what I believed about it, the only thing I had to share was stories of the men in my family that had to be clipped later in life as well as the friends...

I think this really intensified my experience being here, I love that I can team of with the rest of the men against misandry because I've never been fond of feminist indoctrination and I've been a full on MRA as a woman and I'm very honored to be here. I feel very at heart that I can read your stories, your view points on it and learn unique things about all the men and women on here and why they're here to do their part and having a voice. I like that I can come here and talk about things MRA related and I like that I can share my opinions and converse with you all... But my main reasoning for posting it is that my feelings were a little hurt, and they are hurt because I was taken very wrong and I never really was allowed to let you all know that I wasn't disagreeing with you nor was I trying to come off disrespectful at all. I felt like there was a slight over reaction over the subject and I wasn't heard properly, and instead I was viewed as the enemy, but was it because I am a female? No, absolutely not, I do not think that at all because ever since I've been apart of this community you've all made me feel very safe and very welcome to come out and speak and share with you all.

Now I'm going to close off this message by saying that I want to be here for as long as I can, I want to always be apart of the MRA community and especially on the AM page. I'll be here as a woman to back everyone up, share the same beliefs and continue to converse with you all, I'm really happy to be here and I know that I can be in a friendly environmental that is non-hostile and intelligent amounts of people. I love the diversity. I want to be able to understand your side but I'd also like people to see my side as well. I am not your enemy, I'm your fellow MRA regardless of our genetics, differences, life styles and religion. I'm your egalitarian friend. And I will now close this off by saying I am very sorry to those who thought I came off intimidating, because that was not my purpose nor intention at all.

[felixblue]

When I saw the thread title I was overjoyed..

At last a woman who knows her place..

Now when you have done the dishes and hoovered the floor a sandwich would be just grand..

[onyxmoon000]

Now when you have done the dishes and hoovered the floor a sandwich would be just grand..

Well then.

[outdoors]

Awww...geez....ya mean I gotta go read that thread now?

[onyxmoon000]

Awww...geez....ya mean I gotta go read that thread now?

I honestly don't know, it's not up to me I was banned from posting on the topic and told "I'm an admin you better watch your mouth."

[felixblue]

I havent read the thread she is on about.. But I do like a cheese and tomato butty for supper..

[onyxmoon000]

"UK Government: End Unnecessary Male Circumcision in The UK"

[felixblue]

Thought it would be that one.. I choose to keep my dicksleeve and my sons have kept theirs too..

That reminds me, I have some brie downstairs..

[onyxmoon000]

That reminds me, I have some brie downstairs..

Just fyi it doesn't actually phase me when people make women jokes, because I make them all the time myself.

And that's cool, I have no problem with people choosing what's best for their boys. I've got nothing against the whole subject. Just people took it as I did. And it wasn't the intention. Just shared my story. I'm all about everyone having the right to choose.

[outdoors]

k,I am not going to read that thread then.

[onyxmoon000]

k,I am not going to read that thread then.

Choice understandable, I'm glad I could come to terms with some of you rather than none at all. I'm not here to pick on anyone at all, I'm a very curious person no matter what.

[felixblue]

My eldest son is famous for his 8skin.. He could probably pull the thing over his head and use it as a hoody..

Of course, no one would know about that if he didnt keep whipping it out all the time in public places..

A bad habit he probably learned from his mother..

[onyxmoon000]

That's intense.

[felixblue]

I like a lady with a healthy interest in a mans genitals.. You got webcam?

[Marx]

Now what I had gathered from this information of me being banned for commenting on the post, is that I was disrespectful and "full of shit" when I was really asking questions and conversing with both sides... I was also called the typical female that thinks circumcision is right and should still exist, which I never said that at all, I never exactly stated what I believed about it, the only thing I had to share was stories of the men in my family that had to be clipped later in life as well as the friends...

Here's what caught my attention in your post on the thread in question:

I can't necessarily sign this to ban it for good... I think it should be a choice for everyone... The only reason the men in my family were circumcised were due to severe infection. A lot of people tell me "Well shame on your family for not teaching the men proper hygiene!" But I mean, it's complex... My ex boyfriend was also circumcised at 16 due to the same infection and he actually wished his mom would of gotten in it done as a baby so he didn't have to watch the trauma both before and after done to his shrine. This is a very controversial issue, but if it's being done for abusive reasons, then yes, it is wrong. But I believe it should remain free choice.

OK, so you strongly imply that every man in your family - and I'm assuming we're talking a good 5 or 6 men here - in addition to your boyfriend, all mysteriously suffer from the same infection... Now, while I admit it's not 'typical' here for guys to talk about their problems, especially of the genital sorts, I don't know of ONE single man who's had a circumcision due to any kind of infection. Any infection existing can affect cut or uncut men the same. How on Earth there's some weird infection going around that must attack the foreskin only and no other portion is beyond me.

Now, for the 'choice' part... Who's choice? The body owner's choice - or someone else's choice?

I think this really intensified my experience being here, I love that I can team of with the rest of the men against misandry because I've never been fond of feminist indoctrination and I've been a full on MRA as a woman and I'm very honored to be here. I feel very at heart that I can read your stories, your view points on it and learn unique things about all the men and women on here and why they're here to do their part and having a voice. I like that I can come here and talk about things MRA related and I like that I can share my opinions and converse with you all... But my main reasoning for posting it is that my feelings were a little hurt, and they are hurt because I was taken very wrong and I never really was allowed to let you all know that I wasn't disagreeing with you nor was I trying to come off disrespectful at all.

Whoaaaah! While your input as an MRA or anti-feminist or whatever you like to describe yourself as is fully appreciated, it is wrong to say you were disallowed the opportunity to let us know anything. You have been asked to respond and on several occasions chosen not to. Hardly fair to liken it to being denied an opportunity!

I felt like there was a slight over reaction over the subject and I wasn't heard properly...

Which is why I asked for clarification.

...and instead I was viewed as the enemy, but was it because I am a female? No, absolutely not, I do not think that at all because ever since I've been apart of this community you've all made me feel very safe and very welcome to come out and speak and share with you all.

Now I'm going to close off this message by saying that I want to be here for as long as I can, I want to always be apart of the MRA community and especially on the AM page. I'll be here as a woman to back everyone up, share the same beliefs and continue to converse with you all, I'm really happy to be here and I know that I can be in a friendly environmental that is non-hostile and intelligent amounts of people. I love the diversity. I want to be able to understand your side but I'd also like people to see my side as well. I am not your enemy, I'm your fellow MRA regardless of our genetics, differences, life styles and religion. I'm your egalitarian friend. And I will now close this off by saying I am very sorry to those who thought I came off intimidating, because that was not my purpose nor intention at all.

I really appreciate you having taken the time to think this out and make a full post about it, especially that you consider our [men's] feelings on a delicate matter enough to apologise for any perceived offence, which I might add is not necessary but greatly appreciated.
However, it misses something important; the answers to the questions raised in the initial thread.