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- 4th-August-2012 #1
25 year old man, can`t fnd a good woman.
I have taken this article, in full, as it is very well worth reading, from Henry Makow, I hope that some of you will comment......
Ryan, 25, Reports from the Front Lines.
I read what Maggie had to say about modern men in "Male Fail - Why Can't Men Step Up?"
I am a 25-year-old-man who lives in Vancouver. Maggie, men seem to be content with working mediocre jobs, and lacking ambition in life because we have reached a point where we have simply stopped caring. It's depressing to be constantly scrutinized by girls I try to date, and no matter what I do, it never seems to be good enough.
I make enough money to rent my own nice apartment in the city across from the park and I take care of all my bills and have no debts, but girls aren't impressed by that.
They want a man who's a professional and makes more than $100,000 and can take her on trips and buy her everything she wants. The first thing they ask me on a date is "what do you do?" and then "how much does that pay?"
But I don't even see the point because why should I make more for a woman when she has her own job anyways and claims she can take care of herself?
OUR FATHERS.
I see it as I only need to make enough money for ONE person now, me. Remember also that we younger men can look at what has happened to our fathers and learn from that.
My dad has been married three times now. He's in court right now because his second wife wants more money from him now that she learned he got an inheritance and she wants a piece of the pie.
And they were only together for less than two years, and that was ten years ago and she still feels entitled to take as much as she can from him. Yet she works as a civil engineer for the city of Toronto and makes a really good salary, but she wants to take even more from him now that she knows he has more money.
It seems like women just want to get as much as they can from us, while at the same time bragging that they don't need a man and can take care of themselves,
In fact women on average are better educated and earn more money than the average man these days, but they still want to use us out of sheer greed it seems.
I don't care how much better educated and how much women are earning these days. I'm not impressed because I'm a man and I only look at the way a girl looks physically and her personality.
We men don't care what a woman makes or what school she went to; we are different than women that way.
Women want a man who is more successful than them, and since more and more girls are getting higher educations and getting better jobs they are getting frustrated and angry at us men, because they notice that we don't give a damn if she is the main "breadwinner". Who cares if you make more money than your husband?
Maggie's friends are looking down on their own husbands because they have better jobs than their partners. That shouldn't matter if you truly love him!
BISEXUALITY.
I believe this is the reason many girls my age also claim to be bisexual and claim they are more physically attracted to the female body. This is VERY common nowadays and when I meet a girl who says she is only attracted to men, it's a rare occasion.
I believe this is a response to the lack of "real men" these days, who are ambitious and driven, etc....It seems women are trying to rid themselves of men completely and the only thing left that they want us for is to get money from us, even though they don't even need it, it's just something they seem to be compelled to do.
That's why I've basically given up and only want to date girls for sex now, since I am too scared to get married after what I've seen, and I'm not very motivated to be successful when I know I will probably end up having to give a lot of that money to my future ex-wife anyways, it doesn't even seem worth it.
I make just enough for myself to live a comfortable life on and I don't pay for my dates when we go out for dinner or movies. They can pay for themselves since they all get good educations and jobs now. My last two relationships were strictly for sex, and only lasted a couple months each time.
I sometimes get sad and feel like crying because I want a girl to love me for who I am, but girls seem so shallow these days. I gotten rejected by girls for not being tall enough or not having six pack abs, and they actually tell me that's the reason they don't like me.
So I work out at the gym all the time, take steroids, and diet drugs, I get leaner and muscular, and then I can easily get sex from them. If I go off for awhile and take a break then I rejected again by girls.
Girls seem as shallow as men about looks. I'm fed up with being treated like crap by them so I just try to get them in bed as soon as possible and that's it. They don't get anything else from me.
The way women in Canada are, can you really blame us young men for just wanting to use them for sex?
FEMALE PROMISCUITY.
And so many of us are turning to video games, drugs, and sex for pleasure because we have so much trouble finding meaningful relationships.
And sex just for the sake of sex is overrated too. It feels good for a few minutes and then it's over and I'm back to where I started. I might as well just get high cause it's the same thing and I don't need to jump through all these damn hoops and answer the same boring questions with drugs
If I have $120 and I want to have fun, I'd actually rather buy drugs than a hooker, since hookers often make me feel like crap because they don't even pretend to like me and try to kick me out as soon as possible so they can get another guy in and make more money.
I see what they do as a microcosm of what regular Canadian girls do all the time in their relationships. They date a guy for a couple months, the whole time keeping their eyes open for someone who can offer her more.
As soon as she finds one, she will dump the guy she's with or just start ignoring him, and then start dating the guy who looks like he can offer her more, like can take her on more trips, has a nicer car, better job, etc...
PORN SLUT.
One of my sex partners last year was an 18-year-old girl, who was so aggressive that on our first date she pulled off my pants without me telling her to and did this outside in a public park because she said she wanted to see how big my d**k was.
She later told me she was dating other guys too, and was looking for a guy with a bigger penis than me, but that I was good for the time being. She would call me up whenever she wanted sex, and when after a couple months she stopped calling, I assumed she must have finally found a really big guy like she wanted.
She also said to me a few times that if I had rippled abs, she would have sex with me every day instead of just once or twice a week. She even showed me pictures of her favorite male celebrities with their rippled physiques and said that what she wished I looked like.
Since she thought I was handsome but not rippled enough. I consoled myself with the knowledge that at least I was getting regular sex and not having to pay for it.
This girl didn't care about money, she always paid for herself or even treated me to a steak dinner or pizza when we went out sometimes. But I was only her sex partner until she could find someone bigger and better and she told me that.
This type of scenario is not uncommon amongst young people in my city. The guys and girls are obsessed with sex and watch porn all the time (yes the girls I've been with watched porn too, usually pretty violent stuff too where the girl is getting roughed up by the guy. Lesbian porn is another popular one for young girls to watch since they all claim to be bisexual.)
If a girl "settles down" with a boyfriend, it's usually because he's got a good job and she wants him around to take care of her since it's expensive to live here.
So it's not just that we guys are bad because we want to use girls for sex, girls are doing it too now so I don't see them as "victims" of men, but instead as willing participants who look at us men as pieces of meat and judge us even more harshly by our looks than we do with them.
I don't even want to get married now. All my friends' parents are divorced, and I mean every single one of them. It would be nice to experience real love one day but I'm not holding my breath. I might have to go to Japan or the Philippines to find a wife since the girls here have made me cynical.
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- 4th-August-2012 #2
Re: 25 year old man, can`t fnd a good woman.
Great Article. My question is how can you tell if a woman loves you if she "Claims" she loves you? or what is "love" rather sense feminist seem to have changed the definition of marriage/relationships (the man has to have a $100,000 an hour paying job, Have a 6 pack etc)
I can hear women saying to this guy " You need to look harder!" or "your pathetic!" but if any woman were to make an article just like this, she would be justified. Only thing is I wouldn't go to Japan or the Philippines for a woman, I would rather go to the middle east, or India for one. alothought femisinm has infiltrated these places, The women of these places at LEAST stay married to you.Last edited by Dr.E; 4th-August-2012 at 11:31 PM.
- 4th-August-2012 #3
Re: 25 year old man, can`t fnd a good woman.
Greed is for amateurs.
Knowledge without wisdom is a load of books on the back of an ass.
Scorn and mockery towards men in need is one of the reasons feminism is dying as we speak!.
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- 5th-August-2012 #7
Re: 25 year old man, can`t fnd a good woman.
pfft..
"Women...
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They are so willing to respect other men but the man they make love to and is the father of their children –no way. They try to control him, criticize him,,, " Courtney www.womenlivingwell.org
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Re: 25 year old man, can`t fnd a good woman.
For someone twice your age to read about these difficulties as if they had no solution is a little bittersweet, I have to say.
Not once did you mention family ties or career commitments or even liking where you live. Brother, move the fuck on! You get stuck at your age in a rut like this where you are undermined to this degree by nothing but playing the field, what are you going to be doing when you get to my age?
I wouldn't recommend to anyone not an American to try and adapt to the fearmongering repressive bullshit we just put up with here, but isn't it true that Canadian folks can go anywhere in the Commonwealth with just a visa? My God, if I were still 25 and unattached I'd be on the first bus, plane or thumb out of wherever it is if it was so destructive to my spirit. In the 70s I was leaving high school in the suburban swamp of Southern California, and all I could see for people my age was exactly as you describe it: hollow marriage followed by inevitable divorce, or else life with roommates and always looking for the next party. Bo-ring.
I got the hell out and haven't been back.
If you have any kind of tradable skill, why don't you take it on the road awhile? Not everywhere is like your home town, and you may find somewhere else much more to your liking.
If women not living up to your standards or you not living up to theirs is such a huge burden, what's keeping you there? And besides, having a satisfying sex life is the least of objectives for a man to feel fulfilled. The best times in my life when I was that young were when I paid no attention to women at all. Sure they all wanted to fuck me for being so aloof and immune to them, but I learned that fucking them did no more to prove the point to myself than just letting them suffer while I got on with living a man's life.
That I myself traded it all away to waste fifteen years on the wrong woman and endure her taking my son from me doesn't mean I never had a chance to be free. I just fucked up for the same reasons you are: you said it yourself, sex without love is overrated.
So do something else. And I know what I'm saying when I add, before it's too late.
Added after 17 minutes:
Guys, guys, this finding the right woman thing is making me crazy!
I have my dealings with real women, but I met my sweet Rosie Palmer when I was barely out of junior high, and she's the only one I could ever truly rely on, and her ministrations have kept me from falling in with any number of wrong women.
These taboos we just accept without question, self-pleasuring being one of them, are the worst kind of self-inflicted slavery. There isn't some formal definition of Real Manhood or some Macho Advisory Panel that kicks us out if they catch us touching ourselves. Those fictions are the beginning of our addiction to and inability to escape the sexual blackmail, and represent absolutely unachievable standards that keep us so wallowing in self-doubt that it's no wonder women have so little respect for us.
"Real Men Don't Use Porn", etc. Don't you believe it. Somebody does, obviously, and I bet at least a couple of those even have the rippled abs, whatever that means.
All that time the women were trying to get me in bed? I was doing self-service every chance I got, and didn't notice anything falling off or some big sign appearing on me saying, Not a Real Man...Last edited by Rof L Mao Esq; 5th-August-2012 at 03:34 AM. Reason: content auto merged
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Re: 25 year old man, can`t fnd a good woman.
Great article, Rob.
There is so much there that is wrong with society that I really can't put it all in one post; I'd have to write another article or even a book on it. One of the biggest problems though is the loss of the sanctity of marriage and value of sexual intercourse.Our society puts a premium on beauty; common in declining cultures.
Get'm young enough, and the possibilities are endless. -- Unleashed: Danny the Dog
- 5th-August-2012 #10
Re: 25 year old man, can`t fnd a good woman.
As I read in Cosmopolitan magazine many years ago.. "The improved relationship genii is out of the bottle and it isn't going to go back in easily.."
A womans "improved relationship" is perhaps best described as a mans "tiresome relationSHIT"..
One could say men have lost the power they used to have. Power they NEEDED to be able to be "real men"..
But some would say it was stolen from them..
Personally, I say they gave it away in exchange for some worthless crock of shit that seemed to look shiney on the outside..
Toffee apple relationships..
CandySweet on the outside, rotten and full of worms when you bite into them!"Women...
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They are so willing to respect other men but the man they make love to and is the father of their children –no way. They try to control him, criticize him,,, " Courtney www.womenlivingwell.org
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