I am sorry to hear that you are having a bad day today. I can certainly understand why it is a tough day for you.

Have you perhaps tried a big brothers program? Or some other mentorship type program? It may not be the same as being a father but it can be very fulfilling.

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I am sorry to hear that you are having a bad day today. I can certainly understand why it is a tough day for you.

Have you perhaps tried a big brothers program? Or some other mentorship type program? It may not be the same as being a father but it can be very fulfilling.

No I can't because I can't drive and due to my mental disabilties I could not be a proper mentor, I would have no idea of what to do and since I live in the femanazi queendom of canada and that I'm a single man nearly in my 40s I would be labeled as a pedo thanks to the femanazis and I don't need that headache.

Thanks for the advice though and I have thought about it but I have given the reasons why, at one time(if I was not disabiled) that would have been something I would have done but the risks of a false acussation and the " Hang All Men Because They Are All Abusers/Pedos. " hystria just make that impossable.

We all have our off days, Mr. K. I'm glad to say mine went quite well today. My one daughter is off on a school camp, but she wrote me a hand-made father's day card, my other daughter stayed over last night and spent the day with me and I got to see my other daughter on camera a while. I couldn't imagine the way life is for you, but I do hope it improves.

kargan, mate, I know the feeling.

Perhaps we should have a group here for lonely loonies.

I miss my daughter on Father's day but my son tries damned hard to make up for it.

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We all have our off days, Mr. K. I'm glad to say mine went quite well today. My one daughter is off on a school camp, but she wrote me a hand-made father's day card, my other daughter stayed over last night and spent the day with me and I got to see my other daughter on camera a while. I couldn't imagine the way life is for you, but I do hope it improves.

Thanks Bro, I pray that you and the other fathers here on AM, hell all fathers around the world will never lose sight of how lucky you/they are to have children and I can't even being to imagen the hell that countless millions of fathers are feeling this day because they can't be with their children for what ever reasons.

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kargan, mate, I know the feeling.

Perhaps we should have a group here for lonely loonies.

I miss my daughter on Father's day but my son tries damned hard to make up for it.

I agee about the group.

Even though your daught is not with you but that you have your son with you is better then most fathers in the femanazi nations or so it seems.
Being unable to have children for a man or a lady has got to be one of the worst feelings a person can go through especialy on father's/mother's day, I true to envy you and other fathers, also being unable to have children does not excativly go over well with single ladies in the dating game, on top of being disabled and being poor, so days it's an act of God that I don't blow my brains out, I still have a reson to live, namely taking care of my mom and step father, they are all that I have left of my family in this world and once their gone it's going to be hell for me but I trust in God to see me through to the end of my days here on earth when he decied to call me home, each of you here on AM are a blessing to me so I am thankful that I have you all in my life.

Like I said to Marx I pray you never lose sight at just how bless you are Percy that you have children, give thanks to God that you have them, because I have no doubts that since you are a good man that your Son and Daughter will grow into fine human beings, also we should say a prayer to the children who don't have a father for whatever reasons.

Yes Kargan, I do thank the Power that I have children.

My son is 'My beloved son in whom I am well pleased'. He is near 40 now and a good man. I like him as well as love him.

My daughter is all grown up too and is 30. She has not turned out the fine human being that I wanted. But I love her nontheless, despite her complete dismissal of me from her life, and taking her daily life away from me. I miss her every day.

I do not count on God. I hope He might smile on me one day by bringing my daughter to some semblance of understanding and regret for her actions. But that is up to Him and I simply have to live with the pain. I nevertheless understand a little of the pain that God has with so many refusing even to acknowledge Him.

He is a most inscrutable Spirit!

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Yes Kargan, I do thank the Power that I have children.

My son is 'My beloved son in whom I am well pleased'. He is near 40 now and a good man. I like him as well as love him.

My daughter is all grown up too and is 30. She has not turned out the fine human being that I wanted. But I love her nontheless, despite her complete dismissal of me from her life, and taking her daily life away from me. I miss her every day.

I do not count on God. I hope He might smile on me one day by bringing my daughter to some semblance of understanding and regret for her actions. But that is up to Him and I simply have to live with the pain. I nevertheless understand a little of the pain that God has with so many refusing even to acknowledge Him.

He is a most inscrutable Spirit!

Like I said you are a good man Bro, I can't even begin to understand the pain you feel because your daughter does not want to be in your life or that she wants you in her life.
*Hands you a cold one*

But I think that some day you and her will reconect, at lest I hope so.
I'm impressed that you have the sterngth to carry on dispite the fact that you and your daughter are not on speaking terms

I'm impressed that you have the strength to carry on dispite the fact that you and your daughter are not on speaking terms

My strength in this matter has been at rock bottom, and to be frank and honest it is the actions and efforts of several people here that pulled me back. For that I am grateful ....... and loyal.

I had to go to that point where a chap gives up everything that he has and is.

It is astonishing what one may find at the bottom of an empty barrel.

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My strength in this matter has been at rock bottom, and to be frank and honest it is the actions and efforts of several people here that pulled me back. For that I am grateful ....... and loyal.

I had to go to that point where a chap gives up everything that he has and is.

It is astonishing what one may find at the bottom of an empty barrel.

Well Bro we are all the " Walking Wounded " here but one good thing about AM and the net is that pepole like us can get together and draw strength from one another and I do agree with you that when you get the bottom of the barrel one never knows what they will find

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Well Bro we are all the " Walking Wounded " here but one good thing about AM and the net is that pepole like us can get together and draw strength from one another and I do agree with you that when you get the bottom of the barrel one never knows what they will find

Well sir i am sorry to hear your problem's and i wish you the best,but it could be worse,you can have been born a women as well,what a bummer that would have been.

Kargan, my friend,
Remember,
YOU don't just make a difference,
you make THE difference.

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Well it's father's day and for me it's a diffcult time for me since being a father is not an option for me because of my disabities, also the fact that I don't have a GOOD, LOVING LADY to be the mother of my children.

It's funny when I was about 10 or 11 I stop one day and asked myself what I really wanted out of life and the answer to that question was a good paying job that I enjoyed, not a job paying me millions of dollars but good enough pay to have a nice house, to suport a wife and my kids.

However it is not ment to be, I evny you fathers because I know that being a father is the most fullfilling thing for a man dispite the hardships of being a father, espeicaly in this fucked up day and age.

Sorry you feel that way. Not many will understand what you're going through. In some ways, I use to envy fathers, but that envy was short lived as I've seen far too much of what they have to put up with.
I chose to be fatherless and childless for my own personal reasons and I'm not ashamed of it!

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Well sir i am sorry to hear your problem's and i wish you the best,but it could be worse,you can have been born a women as well,what a bummer that would have been.

That's quite a bit sexist, don't you think? Condemning someone for being born a certain way makes you no better than a feminist. Sorry if you don't agree.