Let me sum up. You want me to give gays the "right" (not priviledge) to adopt children who have been taken away from my fellow (hetro) men, by a legal system no one trusts or believes, and which is sanctified by psychologists who are baised?
Feck, I think you need to re-examine where your beliefs are leading us.
This is why I say, fathers must have real rights and then – if any kids are left over – we can talk about adoption.