First Dibs

(reposted as blog per request)

When one begins to realize the significance of the roles certain groups and individuals, laws, and factors play in his life the experience can become eye awakening.

It is essential that we unite for a common cause but in order to do so there are key elements that must be identified.


We must identify:


Men's issues - there are various issues affecting men listed thru out the forum but perhaps 1 place listing them all in a list with examples and documented evidence proving each issue could make a much stronger case. This could result in the awakening of those in an mental coma.


Laws and policies that work against men and/or favor other groups but exclude men (or favor other groups at men's expense) - We could list these laws to not only stay updated but to have documented proof and citation to make our case much more convincing. We must indicate how these laws are unfair towards men.


Our enemies - It is important to know what groups oppose men's rights. If we list what groups oppose men's rights it is important to know how they oppose men's rights and/or why they are enemies to men's rights. If it is against an group's best interest to help men be very suspicious. If an individual holds onto views that oppose the best interests of men be very cautious.


Our allies - It is equally important to recognize our allies as it is to recognize our enemies. We must be able to make a distinction between our allies and our enemies. We can not afford to confuse them.


Our core beliefs and principles - We all have different beliefs on certain issues but we must recognize our common beliefs when it comes to men's rights issues. Recognizing our common beliefs will help us separate disagreements from oppositions. Disagreements happen between 2 or more people working towards the same goals but opposition happens between 2 or more people with different goals.


Our objectives/solutions - Once we know our problems and our beliefs we must ultimately recognize what our goals are. What is our solution to the problem?



Our strategy - We have to know what approach is necessary to achieve our goals.