good for men.
Your comments made me think of the descrimination that exists just in describing relationships. People usually describe a woman's husband or boyfriend by saying things such as "He's good man" and "He treats her well", as if it were something being scrutinized or in question. A man's wife or girlfriend, however, is described by such statements as, "He's lucky to have her," "He married up", "He doesn't deserve her." Again, the man is the one whose behavior or qualities are in question, not the woman's. The assumption of guilt for men and innocence for women is fully-ingrained in society to the extent that people are surprised if a man is good or if a woman is bad.