Quite Honestly, the judge is just as sick as she is. I mean people who are abusive can be very charming as they have no compunction to project a false image of themselves and any judge with any experience knows this. This is what is often reffered to as the 'chivalry syndrone.' Guess deep down inside that guy wanted a blowjob or something. Assuming its a guy. If it was a female judge she is almost undoubtably a feminist and well......you know.
Its realy crazy. If any human being with a set of nads had done the same thing they would probably, well almost definitely, be drawn and quartered before even getting to court.