Had to put this here - I feel abused.

**KellyMac** · 13th-April-2008

These are from the comments thread on this entry http://km.adamsspace.com/2007/12/05/.../#comment-787:

Would any of you want to date miss Sexyfeministwholovesniceguys? She says she's sexy....

Ian 1/2/08

This is messed up. The idea that men have to take care of the finances of the family is a huge part of patriarchy. And even if it’s hard, it’s still institutionally a lot better than the female representation of the housewife. It’s better because you have the freedom to leave the mines and start a new life. But the woman does not have this freedom. She cannot get work because no one will hire her. And she also cannot leave her child he must be fed too. Patriarchy is rooted in gender roles. And even through all the talk about responsibility the truth is still that women don’t run the country, women aren’t influential on culture, and the demeaning of women is ever present in American culture.

Sexyfeministwholovesniceguys 4/11/08

Ian you are the only intelligent person commenting on this. I must say I am disgusted that this blog is written by a women, and the best articles she could find for rape was “false claim” ones. How about the thousands or should I say millions of REAL rapes, women get raped every hour, yes darling its a fact before you come up with one of your pathetic conspiracy theories. All men and women deserve rights and both face different issues. Its a FACT that rape and domestic abuse is more prevalent in women then men.By the way, I plan to have a family and will be a very good mother (and teach my children proper values unlike you no doubt. Trust me I will also be a very good wife. Finally I just have to say you make me sick, your values are completely distorted and belive me BITCH you would not have a job or be able to vote etc etc if it was not for feminists and I hope that you get raped many many times by those so called men that you adore so much. I also hope that your daughter gets raped because you clearly won’t believe her. Real men should be with real women like me, some one who satisfys and challenges not a blind follower like you. Wishing you the most painful and humilating death, hopely a feminist will kill you, I wish it could be me (but I don’t know were you live). Go and suck on some balls you subservient, inferior ***.

KellyMac 4/12/08

Ian, you are either an idiot, or completely whipped. Hope that gets you a lot of pussy, buddy.

Sexyfeministwholovesniceguys, you wouldn’t know a nice guy if he bit you on the ass. You are a good little robot mouthing all the feminist lines.
Fact: a very large percentage of those hourly “rapes” are not forced intercourse, but rather women being offended because a man looked at their exposed cleavage, or women saying no at the last possible instant, or women seeking revenge for some real or imagined slight.

Fact: DV is in most cases mutual combat, half started by the man, half started by the woman. In all but a very few of the rest of the cases, it is between same-sex partners.

Fact: Women worked plenty before feminism.

Fact: Women could vote before feminism.

Fact: I don’t wish rape on you or anyone. For you to do so based on nothing but emotion sounds like you need some serious counseling and medication. Also, it supports very strongly the premise that women are too emotional to lead.

Fact: You’d better be glad I don’t know where you live, or I’d turn you in for making death threats.

P.S. SFWLNG
I have your ip, your site, and your email.

Sexyfeministwholovesniceguys 4/12/08

Its seems the “facts” that you are getting are a figment of your imagination. What world are you living in where a women would accuse a man of RAPE aka involving sex because he looked at her cleveage? Actually I can think why a severely idiotic, clearly uneducated and moronic woman like yourself would claim that to be rape. Unlike you, the rest of the female population have something called BRAINS, I repeat brains and know the difference between rape and a man looking at them. I hope you obtain one (a brain) someday soon. Maybe then you would not make incorrect comments such as DV being ‘mutal’ combat, you really have no sense of reality. Men use it as form of control and the women has NO blame in it but is led to believe she has because of the man or women like you. Same goes for when women use violence against men. You truly are despicable and deranged for blaming the VICTIM. You cannot say the victim started it so its ok. By the way honey, get your facts right, I didn’t threaten to kill you, I said I WISH I could, I was simply sharing a fantasy with you. And oh my, what ever will you do with my fake email? Or the fact that I am using a computer from an internet cafe? Seriously you pathetic women, what goes around comes around, you blame the victim, one day you will become a victim (I’m not personally threatening you before you run to the police, its a warning). By the way, I do think most (not all) women are too emotional so most should not be in leadership roles, but you say it like its a bad thing. Being emotional is what makes me, and men love me for it. Because of my emotions I am a more loving, caring and passionate women who stands up for all people (men and women).

P.s believe me Ian will be getting plently of “pussy” (from me too if I had the chance). He is what I, and other women living in the real world, call a REAL man. His not whipped, he just has a mind of his own and doesn’t listen to what other men say, unlike you.

**julie** · 13th-April-2008

You are getting a lot of slack, Kelly. You need to stay strong.

I see many women thanking you on your site and men. It isn't always about every word you say but about what you do.

And what you are doing is challenging the serpent (I like that descriptive word) and those that wear the mark. (like that word too) .

Don't give up Kelly. It is when your hardest hit that you must not quit. Because it is when you're hardest hit that you are making the biggest impact. You have people thinking and you give them confidence to talk about it.

It will pay off.

Stay strong.

I am thinking that a good article could be on how women want to run everything in the home and yet tell men that they don't do enough.

So then the men offer to do something and the women says, "I don't need it right now" but still bitches that he isn't doing enough. How impossible it is for men to please women. And then they shut down.

Women think they have it so tough but should they be having it so tough? Are they bringing the toughness on themselves?

Just a thought. It might change the atmosphere. Or something similar to help you.

**John Dias** · 13th-April-2008

On rape, remind her that in the U.S., 3/4 of rape cases fail to result in a conviction. In the U.K., 9/10 rape cases fail to result in a conviction. Of course, the vast majority of false allegations of rape are undiscovered.

On domestic violence, just point them to DVStats.org, where they can look at the data. And point them to the 2007 study by Daniel Whitaker et. al., who are researchers at the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. They found that in relationships where the DV is uni-directional, it was the woman beating on the man over 70 percent of the time! Of course, the vast majority of DV against men goes unreported.

Here's the Whitaker study:
http://www.dvstats.org/pdf/Reciproca...nce%20AJPH.pdf

Lastly, fight back with abuse when debating abusive ideologues. By this I mean ridicule them, dismiss them, and belittle them. By citing statistics (and I hope you read the actual studies so that you can expound on their findings when challenged), combined with a take-no-prisoners attitude, you will expose them for the ideologues they are.

**julie** · 13th-April-2008

Quote from John Dias

On rape, remind her that in the U.S., 3/4 of rape cases fail to result in a conviction. In the U.K., 9/10 rape cases fail to result in a conviction. Of course, the vast majority of false allegations of rape are undiscovered.

On domestic violence, just point them to DVStats.org, where they can look at the data. And point them to the 2007 study by Daniel Whitaker et. al., who are researchers at the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. They found that in relationships where the DV is uni-directional, it was the woman beating on the man over 70 percent of the time! Of course, the vast majority of DV against men goes unreported.

Here's the Whitaker study:
http://www.dvstats.org/pdf/Reciproca...nce%20AJPH.pdf

Lastly, fight back with abuse when debating abusive ideologues. By this I mean ridicule them, dismiss them, and belittle them. By citing statistics (and I hope you read the actual studies so that you can expound on their findings when challenged), combined with a take-no-prisoners attitude, you will expose them for the ideologues they are.

I agree with this. Stand the higher ground. Because you speak the truth. Holding the higher ground is showing people you know what you are talking about and you are serious. It is sticking to your guns.

Always Kelly thinks about things. And always she comes back to something worthwhile and will admit if she is wrong in something.

That is a very special person right there. A gift to the movement.

**Incognito** · 13th-April-2008

How constructive is all this talk of rape threats, death threats?

Julie,

You've commented several times on my unreadiness to be a counselor. I've got the impression that you have been in the counseling profession yourself (no?) ...but you encourage people to dismiss and belittle others? I didn't learn that in Counseling classes. Just wondering why you think this works?

**Percy** · 13th-April-2008

Abused Kelly? Nah. Its more like being savaged by a wet sheep. Go sic'em gal.

Remember, Non calor sed umor est qui nobis incommodat. *

It's not the heat, it's the humidity.

**julie** · 13th-April-2008

Quote from TERA

How constructive is all this talk of rape threats, death threats?

Julie,

You've commented several times on my unreadiness to be a counselor. I've got the impression that you have been in the counseling profession yourself (no?) ...but you encourage people to dismiss and belittle others? I didn't learn that in Counseling classes. Just wondering why you think this works?

Tera, I hold some very special people very highly in counselling. My favourite women and one that even the hardest of criminals love is a woman who counselled men from the wars in Russia. She is LOVE. It is all around her. It is within her. In every word that comes from her mouth. But you have to earn her.

You feel privileged just to be in her presence. She can see right through you.

It is very difficult to accept another counsellor when you know someone so special. But I will tell you what a good counsellor is. Someone who is able to not judge you.

All you have done since you were here is judge. You found fault in men straight away.

Do you think that finding fault in people makes you a worthwhile counsellor? (hey, this is a site. We can all learn from each other)

**chevalier** · 13th-April-2008

Kelly Mac keep up the good work. In order to promote change you are going to irritate some people who respond with emotion rather than thought. But in the long run you can greatly help those stuck on the fence between feminism and real equality for men women and children.

Keep up the great work KM you are a clear voice of reason amongst many voices of unreason. Keep making your voice heard dear sister you will make a difference or as Percy says you will make THE difference.

**Incognito** · 13th-April-2008

**Incognito** · 13th-April-2008

ARGH! Don't know why but the videos I'm trying to post just don't work.

Anyway, I wanted to share a song with you. It's called "Love Can Build a Bridge", by The Judds. You can find it on YouTube if you're interested.

**Dr David Banner** · 13th-April-2008

Kelly Mac. You know I am heartily sorry what you have to put with, including some of the less charitable remarks here.I have to tell you when I get mad at similar remarks like "mizz sexy feminist" I think of you and your work and smile!

"Sexyfeministwholovesniceguys"
LOL - Has a high opinion of herself. Responds to a reasoned argument with insults. Ah quelle surprise!

"I hope that you get raped many many times by those so called men that you adore so much. I also hope that your daughter gets raped because you clearly won’t believe her."
"Sexyfeministwholovesniceguys"

...Proof if any more were needed you are on the side that for the most part (so far thank God) practices morality.

Its sounds that this er... lady is more likely than anyone here to resort to thuggery. She is drunk with spite. I dont think counselling would help her, exorcism would be more beneficial.

**the sad geek** · 14th-April-2008

Sexy feminist doesn't love nice guys, she's afraid of real men, those who are authentic to themselves.

She's probably not sexy too.

In any case, a job well done, KellyMac.