These are from the comments thread on this entry http://km.adamsspace.com/2007/12/05/.../#comment-787:

Would any of you want to date miss Sexyfeministwholovesniceguys? She says she's sexy....

You are getting a lot of slack, Kelly. You need to stay strong.

I see many women thanking you on your site and men. It isn't always about every word you say but about what you do.

And what you are doing is challenging the serpent (I like that descriptive word) and those that wear the mark. (like that word too) .

Don't give up Kelly. It is when your hardest hit that you must not quit. Because it is when you're hardest hit that you are making the biggest impact. You have people thinking and you give them confidence to talk about it.

It will pay off. Stay strong.

I am thinking that a good article could be on how women want to run everything in the home and yet tell men that they don't do enough.

So then the men offer to do something and the women says, "I don't need it right now" but still bitches that he isn't doing enough. How impossible it is for men to please women. And then they shut down.

Women think they have it so tough but should they be having it so tough? Are they bringing the toughness on themselves?

Just a thought. It might change the atmosphere. Or something similar to help you.

Rofl..
Two words come to mind..
Scared shitless.

You had her worried about death threats!

good job KM

On rape, remind her that in the U.S., 3/4 of rape cases fail to result in a conviction. In the U.K., 9/10 rape cases fail to result in a conviction. Of course, the vast majority of false allegations of rape are undiscovered.

On domestic violence, just point them to DVStats.org, where they can look at the data. And point them to the 2007 study by Daniel Whitaker et. al., who are researchers at the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. They found that in relationships where the DV is uni-directional, it was the woman beating on the man over 70 percent of the time! Of course, the vast majority of DV against men goes unreported.

Here's the Whitaker study:
http://www.dvstats.org/pdf/Reciproca...nce%20AJPH.pdf

Lastly, fight back with abuse when debating abusive ideologues. By this I mean ridicule them, dismiss them, and belittle them. By citing statistics (and I hope you read the actual studies so that you can expound on their findings when challenged), combined with a take-no-prisoners attitude, you will expose them for the ideologues they are.

I agree with this. Stand the higher ground. Because you speak the truth. Holding the higher ground is showing people you know what you are talking about and you are serious. It is sticking to your guns.

Always Kelly thinks about things. And always she comes back to something worthwhile and will admit if she is wrong in something.

That is a very special person right there. A gift to the movement.

How constructive is all this talk of rape threats, death threats?

Julie,

You've commented several times on my unreadiness to be a counselor. I've got the impression that you have been in the counseling profession yourself (no?) ...but you encourage people to dismiss and belittle others? I didn't learn that in Counseling classes. Just wondering why you think this works?

Abused Kelly? Nah. Its more like being savaged by a wet sheep. Go sic'em gal.

Remember, Non calor sed umor est qui nobis incommodat. *









It's not the heat, it's the humidity.

Tera, I hold some very special people very highly in counselling. My favourite women and one that even the hardest of criminals love is a woman who counselled men from the wars in Russia. She is LOVE. It is all around her. It is within her. In every word that comes from her mouth. But you have to earn her.

You feel privileged just to be in her presence. She can see right through you.

It is very difficult to accept another counsellor when you know someone so special. But I will tell you what a good counsellor is. Someone who is able to not judge you.

All you have done since you were here is judge. You found fault in men straight away.

Do you think that finding fault in people makes you a worthwhile counsellor? (hey, this is a site. We can all learn from each other)

UnSexyFeminist threatens KellyMac not with rape but about violence she would like to impose on Kelly. You come here whining about a few men who speak of violence and go blast it all over Yahoo.
Then you come back acting like a saint with your criticism of our movement once again.

You are really making yourself out to be a complete hypocritical nutjob and disrupting this forum repeatedly.
A Ban would be a proper solution for a troll like you.

Kelly Mac keep up the good work. In order to promote change you are going to irritate some people who respond with emotion rather than thought. But in the long run you can greatly help those stuck on the fence between feminism and real equality for men women and children.

Keep up the great work KM you are a clear voice of reason amongst many voices of unreason. Keep making your voice heard dear sister you will make a difference or as Percy says you will make THE difference.