here is a taste;
MINIMIZING,DENYING AND BLAMING
defining"minimizing,denying and blaming"
Any action,statement,or lack of actions that result in obscurring,concealing or change of anyones perception of your behaviour to your advantage
circle numbers beside the behaviours listed below,indicate at least 5 minimizing,denying or blaming behaviours that you have used diectly or indirectly against your partner or ex-partner.
Once you have identified 5 behaviours answer the attached questions for two responses.This is to be finished and handed in before you will be considered to have completed the assignment
I am minimizing,denying and blaming.....
1. when i deny that i abused my partner
2.when i told my partner that she provoked the attack
3.when i suggested she exagerated the incident
4.when i suggested it could have been much worse
5.when i implied that other women are treated worse
6.when i suggest that i acted because of stress at work
7.when i suggest that women are as abusive as men
8.when i claim to be the victim
9.when i told her she was lying about my abusive behaviour
10.when i insist she forget about the abuse
11.when i insist that i didn't mean to hurt her
12.when i told her abuse was normal
13.when i told her that she provoked me
14.when i told her she "pushed my buttons"
15.when i told her"she asked for it
this is just a sample
i am going to find the introduction and orientation of this "non-anger management course" next.They both solely blame men for all domestic violence.