here is a taste;

MINIMIZING,DENYING AND BLAMING

defining"minimizing,denying and blaming"

Any action,statement,or lack of actions that result in obscurring,concealing or change of anyones perception of your behaviour to your advantage


circle numbers beside the behaviours listed below,indicate at least 5 minimizing,denying or blaming behaviours that you have used diectly or indirectly against your partner or ex-partner.
Once you have identified 5 behaviours answer the attached questions for two responses.This is to be finished and handed in before you will be considered to have completed the assignment


I am minimizing,denying and blaming.....

1. when i deny that i abused my partner
2.when i told my partner that she provoked the attack
3.when i suggested she exagerated the incident
4.when i suggested it could have been much worse
5.when i implied that other women are treated worse
6.when i suggest that i acted because of stress at work
7.when i suggest that women are as abusive as men
8.when i claim to be the victim
9.when i told her she was lying about my abusive behaviour
10.when i insist she forget about the abuse
11.when i insist that i didn't mean to hurt her
12.when i told her abuse was normal
13.when i told her that she provoked me
14.when i told her she "pushed my buttons"
15.when i told her"she asked for it
16.________________________
17.________________________




this is just a sample

i am going to find the introduction and orientation of this "non-anger management course" next.They both solely blame men for all domestic violence.

introduction
All relationships have conflict.Getting angry,feeling hurt and argueing are all part of relationships.We choose how to act and react to conflict.If we use violence or threats,or if we force someone to do certain things,that is abuse.

Some men blame their anger or their partner or alcohol or drugs for their violence.Blaming someone or something else will not make violence go away.To stop from being violent we must first want to be nonviolent and then commit to doing whatever it takes to change.We cannot change someone else.We must learn to take 100% responsibility for our own violent and abusive actions.This is not easy.We must do do the hard work of looking at the permission we give ourselves to act the way we do.We must be willing to give up power and control and strive for equality.Violence and abuse destroy relationships,people,communities,self-respect,dreams and our children's future.
Our socialization as men teaches us that we are entitled to use violence when things aren't going our way.Without counting the cost,we make the choice to use violence and abuse.It may take a crisis before we stop and look at ourselves.This crisis can be an opportunity to make a commitment to be non-violent and ask; "How do i want to act in relationships?","Do i want to continue to hurt the people that i love?",What can i do to make my life more complete and peaceful?"
Many men are court ordered to attend class and do not want to participate.We know you may find it hard to be here.We invite you to stay open-minded so that you can benefit from the PAR nonviolence program.

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MALE PRIVELAGE


Defining "male privelage"


Attitudes and/or beliefs,and any action or inaction based on those beliefs,that you have special status or rights because your a man

I am using male privelage.....

1. when i treat my partner like a servant
2.when i demand her obedience
3.when i maintain a double standard
4.when i define the role for men and women in our family
5.when i act like"king of the castle"
6.when i treat her like she is inferior
7.when i assume she will not understand something because she is a woman
8.when i make a decision without consulting her
9.when i told her she could not get along with out me
10.when i treated her as though she was helpless or incapable
11.when i demand the final say in decisions
12._______________________
13._______________________

Thanks for posting this shit Outdoors, now all we need is the shit they give females in this abuse shelters that tell them how much of a victim they are even when they brought it on themselves if you can see what I'm saying, so we can compaire them side by side so everyone can see the blanet double standard

doesn't anyone see the hypocracy of this?

1. when i deny that i abused my partner
2.when i told my partner that she provoked the attack
3.when i suggested she exagerated the incident
8.when i claim to be the victim
9.when i told her she was lying about my abusive behaviour

so no matter what-your just as guilty for claiming innocence

Our socialization as men teaches us that we are entitled to use violence when things aren't going our way.Without counting the cost,we make the choice to use violence and abuse.

this is a news to me-i wonder if it was a man feminist or woman feminist that came up with this shit?

8.when i make a decision without consulting her

we cannot think for ourselves without it being called abuse?

10.when i treated her as though she was helpless or incapable

i guess being chivalrous to your partner would also be considered abuse

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doesn't anyone see the hypocracy of this?

I can see it and it pisses me off

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so no matter what-your just as guilty for claiming innocence

Remember there is no such thing as an Innocent Man in the western nations thanks to the femanazis

this is a news to me-i wonder if it was a man feminist or woman feminist that came up with this shit?

I don't know but it would seem that the smart money would be on a women femanazi

we cannot think for ourselves without it being called abuse?

The femanazis want mindless drones to control, they can't stand it when a man thinks for himself because that man will ask questions that will expose the femanazis as the man hating lairs that they are

i guess being chivalrous to your partner would also be considered abuse

Yep, chivalry is dead and the femanazis and women killed it

Looking through this list... I was heavily abused by my ex wife.

Oh, no - no I wasn't, sorry.

It's perfectly fine when she did any of the above. It's only bad when a man does them - it says so in black & white.

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Looking through this list... I was heavily abused by my ex wife.

Oh, no - no I wasn't, sorry.

It's perfectly fine when she did any of the above. It's only bad when a man does them - it says so in black & white.

Tell me about it Bro this model is a fucking joke and insult that has fucked men over so badly that it needs to be destoryed along with feminisim however the way we go about it is a whole lot tricker then dealing with any other hate movement since it have Big Pimp Daddy Goverment backing it to the fucking hilt

USING CHILDREN AND/OR OTHERS


defining"Using Children and/or Others"

Any action which directly or indirectly uses children,other people or social institutions as leveragr to gain advantage

circle numbers beside the behaviours listed below,indicate at least 5 minimizing,denying or blaming behaviours that you have used diectly or indirectly against your partner or ex-partner.
Once you have identified 5 behaviours answer the attached questions for two responses.This is to be finished and handed in before you will be considered to have completed the assignment




I am using my children as a form of abuse.....

1.when i try to make my partner/ex partner feel guilty about the children.
2.when i use my visitation access to harass my partner/ex partner.
3.when i question the children about my partner/ex partner's activities.
4.when i blame the family problem on my partner/ex partner to our children.
5.when i threaten her access to our children.
6.when i do not bring the children back to her at the agreed time.
7.when i use the children to relay messages.
8.when i threaten a custody battle.
9.when i with hold child support.
10.when i put her down in front of the childen.
11.when i put her down "to" our children
12.when i threaten to take the children away.
13.when i demand she account for the support payments.
14when i use the children as an excuse to "drop in" on her.
15.________________________________________
16.________________________________________

just wondering???

should i continue with these posts?


pretty well says-that if she doesn't like something(anything) that u do or think-you are an abuser and should be considered armed and dangerous.

i will try and post the actual lessons on how men should(have to) crawl for their significant other-or again,you are an abuser

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just wondering???

should i continue with these posts?


pretty well says-that if she doesn't like something(anything) that u do or think-you are an abuser and should be considered armed and dangerous.

i will try and post the actual lessons on how men should(have to) crawl for their significant other-or again,you are an abuser

By all means continue to make these posts that are vital intel for men who get roped into this bullshit as well as to give a heads up to anyone who might have to go throught this as well as exposing the blaming and shaming that goes on because of this shit ass lessions

feminazi filth for fools!

there can only be two types of relationshit that "work" according to this shite..

Let the entitled one do whatever she wants..

Orf just walk away and spend the rest of your life wanking because every time you interact with a female you are abusing her..

live in misery or live alone!

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there can only be two types of relationshit that "work" according to this shite..

Let the entitled one do whatever she wants..

Orf just walk away and spend the rest of your life wanking because every time you interact with a female you are abusing her..

live in misery or live alone!

u got that right.

i was just gonna post another subject about,"isolation"--but all i can do is shake my head at this feminazi garbage--it truly is sickening.