Daughter falsely accuses.....MOM !!! Shock, horror !!

**Percy** · 1st-April-2009

Now the Machinery for False DV Accusations Is Being Used by Teen Daughters Against Their Mothers…

In a recent post on www.glennsacks.com, "Michelle" writes:

[False domestic violence accusations aren't] only a boyfriend/girlfriend [or husband/wife] thing.

My then-17 year old daughter was out of control. Sneaking out her bedroom window not once, but twice in the same night, with two different guys, more than once. Our neighbor finally told us what was going on; her bedroom is upstairs so I had no idea she could do this undetected.

She had no sense of responsibility whatsoever, did no chores, and her language was as vulgar as it gets.
When I tried to discipline her, she would threaten to call the police and "make an injury" on herself to blame on me. And one day, she made good on that promise.

I came home from shopping one Sunday to find three police cruisers in my driveway and my daughter standing amongst them with a big red welt-like mark on her neck. She'd told them I'd tried to strangle her. I later found out she'd taken her purse strap to make the "injury." Incidentally, the reason she did this was because I removed a large bottle of rum from her bedroom and poured it out. I remember her saying, "Your ass is going to jail, just watch."

I was in such shock that I could say little except, "This can't be happening" and trying in vain to explain the situation to the cops. Then one said, "turn around" and I did and was promptly handcuffed and taken to jail.

I have NEVER laid a finger on any of our children, nor has my husband. He wasn't at home at the time, and I cannot tell you how it felt to be in the back of a squad car going downtown for doing absolutely nothing wrong (save for raising a spoiled child.)

It was her word against mine, and for some reason, I lost. I received a simple assault charge and was given a year's probation. When I returned home that night, she had this awful "told you so" smirk that made me wish I was back in the jail, for that's what my home had become since she began her rule.

I haven't the words to describe how this made me feel. All the way to the station, the cops driving me wondered aloud how I "could've done that to that sweet girl." It was the stuff of nightmares.

http://mensnewsdaily.com/glennsacks/2009/03/31/now-the-machinery-for-false-dv-accusations-is-being-used-by-teen-daughters-against-their-mothers/

Dear Michelle. what can I say.

I have great sympathy for you for the shock you have had.

But Michelle, what did you expect?

Your daughter has been told and told and told that SHE can do what ever she wants. She is 'empowered'. Hear her roar.

hey, you told her yourself.

Did you used to sing her to sleep as a baby with Helen Reddy "I am Womaaaaaaan" instead of Rock a Bye baby?? You reap what you and your generation of women sowed.

Just where were you when she was getting lessons on false accusation everyday on TV and in the press and from casual conversations you had with your mother's group?

Did you stand up and yell whenever some chap was falsely accused? Or sit silently, smiling? Did you go for 'women' instead of 'Truth'? Did you ever let the phrase 'He must have deserved it' pass your lips without giving any consideration to the facts? In her earshot? Did she see the smile of quiet glee flit across your face when some chap was ruined by a woman's lie.

Well, it ain't fun, is it.

**RebelliousVanilla** · 1st-April-2009

So, why would I have kids? With each day that passes I realize that there's no point. I'll happily off myself when I won't be able to enjoy life anymore and need to live it through others.

Plus, I have no desire to make kids so that they become slaves of the corrupt society we have now and had for the last 100 years. There was a time window when things were great. 1850-1920.

**Incognito** · 1st-April-2009

The above story Percy posted has less to do with feminism than it does spoiling a child. The girl was totally out of control. She had both a mother and father in the home and still she turned out the way she did. Makes ya wonder what sort of discipline the girl ever had.

RV, not all kids are like that...thank goodness. I wasn't sure I ever wanted kids when I was your age...but I ended up having three. They're a handful, (all kids are to a degree- that's the nature of children) but at the same time, I don't think I can think of anything more personally fulfilling.

Having kids probably isn't for everyone. My best friend (she's 39 now) never wanted to have children, and though she's married, she still doesn't have kids. She's perfectly happy with that decision and doesn't regret it.

**Garak** · 1st-April-2009

I have NEVER laid a finger on any of our children, nor has my [COLOR=#009600! important]husband[/color].

Herein lies part of the problem. Her ass should have been busted a few times during childhood but no no, we mustn't spank.

It's too late now, she is just another menace to society.

**Jack** · 1st-April-2009

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The above story Percy posted has less to do with feminism than it does spoiling a child.

But with the prevalence of Feminism in our society a girl is far more likely to grow up with a massive sense of entitlement than a boy is.

**RebelliousVanilla** · 1st-April-2009

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The above story Percy posted has less to do with feminism than it does spoiling a child. The girl was totally out of control. She had both a mother and father in the home and still she turned out the way she did. Makes ya wonder what sort of discipline the girl ever had.

Actually feminism pushed for these laws and it backfired.

**Garak** · 1st-April-2009

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Actually feminism pushed for these laws and it backfired.

Yes, feminism has used the children to get all kinds of things and the children are used alot in DV accusations. HE is always a danger to "her and the children". Is it any wonder we are moving into a stage where children rule? These same people who we say aren't old enough to make sound decisions...will now rule?

Sometimes I wonder if feminists were just too shorted sighted to follow their nonsense to it's logical conclusion or if they knew this would happen and did it anyway for the short term benefits.

**senach** · 2nd-April-2009

Did anyone notice something wrong with this story??

**shaazam** · 2nd-April-2009

Quote from TERA

The above story Percy posted has less to do with feminism than it does spoiling a child. The girl was totally out of control. She had both a mother and father in the home and still she turned out the way she did. Makes ya wonder what sort of discipline the girl ever had.

RV, not all kids are like that...thank goodness. I wasn't sure I ever wanted kids when I was your age...but I ended up having three. They're a handful, (all kids are to a degree- that's the nature of children) but at the same time, I don't think I can think of anything more personally fulfilling.

Having kids probably isn't for everyone. My best friend (she's 39 now) never wanted to have children, and though she's married, she still doesn't have kids. She's perfectly happy with that decision and doesn't regret it.

"""..he girl was totally out of control. She had both a mother and father in the home and still she turned out the way she did. Makes ya wonder what sort of discipline the girl ever had. ...""

but you see Mom is a victim of the political correct claptrap about child rearing - can't smack em !!! you see !!!

Unfortunately due to the political correct cant imbued into kids at school they know they cannot be disciplined - my son came home and told me I can't smack him cause the "teacher sez"

this applies especially to little girls they are the cherry on the cake in the feminit ascendancy

Dad you say - well if he has half a brain he knows his place and keeps a low profile - the police could just have well arrested him

this outcome is a result that has been set to occur by the family hating feminits who promulgate the new feminti order - the police are the daddy as momma found out

the feminit system only sees parents or usually Mom as a facilitator
the feminit state is the real Momma and Pappa

**senach** · 2nd-April-2009

I do not believe that this is a true story,well not the way it was told,the mother was arrested,charged and convicted all in one day,a Sunday,what was this, the star chamber.

**shaazam** · 2nd-April-2009

Quote from senach

I do not believe that this is a true story,well not the way it was told,the mother was arrested,charged and convicted all in one day,a Sunday,what was this, the star chamber.

the feminit system is well oiled by dint of incessant practise

a bit like the highway patrol before you can say Jack Spratt the critters have written out a speeding infringement and will politely tell you how long to pay

**Percy** · 2nd-April-2009

Originally Posted by senach

I do not believe that this is a true story,well not the way it was told,the mother was arrested,charged and convicted all in one day,a Sunday,what was this, the star chamber.

It does not say that at all, senach. Read it again.

**RebelliousVanilla** · 2nd-April-2009

As a kid, I was getting hit with a wooden ruler across my palms if I was misbehaving. Or spanked.

My grandmother had to do that wooden ruler thing ONCE in the 6 years that I lived with her for 5 days a week. If I'm thinking about it, I was pretty responsible back then too because I had to wash my clothing by hand if I was getting them dirty, I had to leave everything in order behind me or I was getting punished.

**Percy** · 2nd-April-2009

The above story Percy posted has less to do with feminism than it does spoiling a child. The girl was totally out of control. She had both a mother and father in the home and still she turned out the way she did. Makes ya wonder what sort of discipline the girl ever had.

It is certainly fair to say that spoiling the child might have a lot to do with it. Equally, not providing guiding discipline. But they are symptoms of an underlying ideology which is pulled along by a team of horses called narcissim, resentment, hubris and hysteria; in turn driven by Feminism up in the driver's seat holding the reins.

Feminism also wields the whip that lashes fathers for attempting to have any say over what his female child is to do or not to do. Meanwhile the mothers cosy up to the feminist bully offering a cup of tea and wanting to ride shotgun.

**senach** · 2nd-April-2009

Quote from Percy

It does not say that at all, senach. Read it again.

I have read it sir again,and it says that on coming home from shopping on a Sunday,she was arrested,and by that evening she was home,after receiving,12 months probation,that is the timeline,that is the way it was written,and there was no mention of a court case.

Please check the inside of your NCB suit for residual poppy seed my dear sir.