I get so tired of women saying the father has no interest in the children. How the fuck does she know? No it couldn't be that it is so fucking painful to be seperated from them that it is just intolerable. Now I personally think that as men we should buck up and do what we need to do for our kids. But I certainly can understand that the pain can be overwhelming and make a man irrational but does that mean he doesn't care? I don't think so.