Oh and on the topic of the word faggot. There are many different words to describe a man who favors men and all of them are derogatory in my mind.

Being "men" does not make them saints. As far as I am concerned (and this opinion has seen me banned from SYG) faggots, queers, gays, fudge packers, etc... are not on our side. There may be a few here and there but as a whole, the gay agenda and feminism are allies. In fact, they actively support one another. Go to feministing and see how the lovely ladies feel about homosexuality (both men and women).

Homosexuality and feminism are allies because they both fight against the heterosexual norm, against heterosexual men and heterosexual marriage.