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Originally Posted by TERA  I remember Yohan explaining this before...and the whole idea of fathers not having any visitation rights is scary. Women hold all the cards, then, in Japan, if there's a divorce. If she doesn't think you're offering her enough money..she can deny you visitation. If she just wants to deny you visitation for ANY reason, she could. And there'd be nothing you or the courts or anyone else could do about it. |
But on the flipside, women don't want to divorce because there is no financial reward! It seems to me, from what Yohan has said about this, that although the system is unfair - it is unfair to both parents (he = no rights / she = no money) - and so they both make an..
big word coming up, so feminists - prepare yourselves:
...and so they both make an...
EFFORT!
That's right, it seems to me that because the system takes no sides (as oppose in our Western cultures which take a clear woman's side), they both make an effort to make the marriage work - for everyone's benefit.
Wow, imagine that!?!
